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Grief is one of the most universal human experiences, but all too often, no one talks about it. Here you’ll find personal stories that deal with loss openly and honestly.

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“When we lose someone we love, we should remember that the person has not become nothing.”

By Kevin Krim

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“Grief isn’t about ‘closure.’ Nor is it something to overcome or get past. It’s something to lean into, to embrace.”

By Arianna Huffington

Grief & Loss

“My dad discovered he had a son less than a minute before he discovered he had lost his son.”

By Byron Auguste

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“And I don't want anyone to forget about Jesse. He isn't ‘lost.’ He was murdered.”

By Scarlett Lewis

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“I still miss my dad every day. But I think he’d be proud of what I’ve accomplished.”

By Genevieve Liu

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“We have to raise our frequency to see the beauty in life—and when it knocks you down, you get back up, every time.”

By Eric Hodgdon

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“I’d always been the moon to my mom’s bright shining sun. How do you live without the sun?”

By Christa Fletcher

Grief & Loss

“As I got better, I started to feel that it was time to give back.”

By Mariane Maciel

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“I instantly connected him to Leo. I felt that maybe the universe was trying to tell me something.”

By Marina Krim

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“How was it possible to go on with your life after losing all that you had known and loved?”

By Jacqueline Jules

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How to conquer loneliness during the holidays

By Patton Oswalt

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“It takes time, determination, and the effort to reinvent yourself. You will change; it’s inevitable.”

By Bobbi Huffman

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“We continued to thrive to the extent possible because an army of loved ones held us fast through the tortured holiday season.”

By John Duberstein

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“These days, I choose to celebrate February 14th as a day of love.”

By Vivian Stapleton

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Grief may change some holiday traditions, but you can create new ones

By Robin Roberts

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“I decided to give the man I still loved so deeply an ultimatum: get help or the children and I will leave.”

By Sharon Pereira

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“When you go through a really hard time there are things that you can learn. And they make you stronger.”

By Gabrielle Reece

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“Someone is always going to have an opinion. It's up to you to acknowledge or ignore these opinions.”

By Kreithchele Barnard

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Coping with grief

“When we lose someone we love, we should remember that the person has not become nothing.”

“Grief isn’t about ‘closure.’ Nor is it something to overcome or get past. It’s something to lean into, to embrace.”

“My dad discovered he had a son less than a minute before he discovered he had lost his son.”

“And I don't want anyone to forget about Jesse. He isn't ‘lost.’ He was murdered.”

“I still miss my dad every day. But I think he’d be proud of what I’ve accomplished.”

“We have to raise our frequency to see the beauty in life—and when it knocks you down, you get back up, every time.”

“I’d always been the moon to my mom’s bright shining sun. How do you live without the sun?”

“As I got better, I started to feel that it was time to give back.”

“I instantly connected him to Leo. I felt that maybe the universe was trying to tell me something.”

“How was it possible to go on with your life after losing all that you had known and loved?”

How to conquer loneliness during the holidays

“It takes time, determination, and the effort to reinvent yourself. You will change; it’s inevitable.”

What I’ve learned over the 19 Christmases since my husband died

"We grieve because we love. How lucky we are to have experienced that love."

“What if we get to choose how we show up for hard moments?”

“We continued to thrive to the extent possible because an army of loved ones held us fast through the tortured holiday season.”

“These days, I choose to celebrate February 14th as a day of love.”

Grief may change some holiday traditions, but you can create new ones

“I decided to give the man I still loved so deeply an ultimatum: get help or the children and I will leave.”

“When you go through a really hard time there are things that you can learn. And they make you stronger.”

“Someone is always going to have an opinion. It's up to you to acknowledge or ignore these opinions.”

Which of these is most relevant to the challenges you're facing?

Which of these is most relevant to the challenges they're facing?

Coping with grief

“When we lose someone we love, we should remember that the person has not become nothing.”

“Grief isn’t about ‘closure.’ Nor is it something to overcome or get past. It’s something to lean into, to embrace.”

“My dad discovered he had a son less than a minute before he discovered he had lost his son.”

“And I don't want anyone to forget about Jesse. He isn't ‘lost.’ He was murdered.”

“I still miss my dad every day. But I think he’d be proud of what I’ve accomplished.”

“We have to raise our frequency to see the beauty in life—and when it knocks you down, you get back up, every time.”

“I’d always been the moon to my mom’s bright shining sun. How do you live without the sun?”

“As I got better, I started to feel that it was time to give back.”

“I instantly connected him to Leo. I felt that maybe the universe was trying to tell me something.”

“How was it possible to go on with your life after losing all that you had known and loved?”

How to conquer loneliness during the holidays

“It takes time, determination, and the effort to reinvent yourself. You will change; it’s inevitable.”

What I’ve learned over the 19 Christmases since my husband died

"We grieve because we love. How lucky we are to have experienced that love."

“What if we get to choose how we show up for hard moments?”

“We continued to thrive to the extent possible because an army of loved ones held us fast through the tortured holiday season.”

“These days, I choose to celebrate February 14th as a day of love.”

Grief may change some holiday traditions, but you can create new ones

“I decided to give the man I still loved so deeply an ultimatum: get help or the children and I will leave.”

“When you go through a really hard time there are things that you can learn. And they make you stronger.”

“Someone is always going to have an opinion. It's up to you to acknowledge or ignore these opinions.”

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